Well, first what sort of visa are you coming on? If you are coming over on a student visa then you will have to pay full school fees for your children which could be as much as $4000 a year per child. Plus you'd also have to pay for private health care which could be $3000 a year for the family. Then there is your own tuition which is generally expensive as well because you'd be classed as an international student.
However.... if your husband is eligible for a permanent visa you can apply for one of those and come over that way. Then you could get Medicare for free (essentially) and the kids schooling would pretty much be free too (plus uniforms, books, etc). Or, if he's coming on a temporary employer sponsored visa (457) then that would change things too.
If you're coming on a temp 457 then I would not go to Sydney, you would have to pay extra for the kids schooling there. In QLD even on a 457 the kids school is free. Other than that I can't really tell you much differences about the two. We've probably only spent about a week in total in New South Wales. Although I can say that while in Sydney we found it very expesnive and were happy to leave.
The big difference though between the two is the weather. Sydney cools down a lot more during the winter months than Brisbane, and might be a touch milder in the summer. I haven't experienced it but so far we've loved the weather in Brisbane so we have no complaints.
As for family oriented areas we really like the Redlands which is just south east of Brisbane. It's close enough to work in the city, but not big and crowded as you would find closer in. We live in Capalaba and we were very happy with the type of houses we could afford here, and the area in general is lovely.
When we first arrived we stayed in a hotel for 3 days while I found a house to rent. Then we moved into the rental and after 3 months we bought a house. We only had the rental for 4 months so we knew we had to move out very quickly. We brought no furniture or anything (besides our clothes) so we bought a few camping items to do for a week or two while we furnished our hosue.
Hope that helps a bit. Gotta go, it's time for dinner here.




