Basically you generally cannot get in-State tuition as a foreign student (F-1, M-1, J-1). Even if you establish residency in the State by getting a DL, residence, etc. you would still be listed in the college admissions system as a foreign student and there's nothing you can do about it as the college has to issue the I-20.
There was a court case in California that established that dependents of people in non-immigrant categories could get in-State tuition rates if the college received State funding, that related to a person who was on H-4. Some States have copied California. However in F-1 you are expressly entering to study, so that is a different situation.
It does depend to some extent whether they get State funding. Generally speaking if they do you would have to pay out-of-State tuition rates. If it's a private college you might have more luck but I doubt it frankly because they want your money and private colleges often don't distinguish with their rates anyway because they're private.
As an F-1 student you can get work authorization by filing I-765, this allows you to work on-campus for up to 20 hours a week. This doesn't sound helpful, but F-1 students are exempt from paying FICA withholding for up to five years, provided you file a 1040NR and 8843 with the IRS every year, so you get to keep more of what you earn. You should file those forms anyway so you don't have to pay income tax on money you receive from abroad. (Put down "non-resident alien student" in the answer to question 6 on the W-4 when you start work. If they withhold the FICA
taxes you can claim them back when you file your tax return by submitting form 843).
Once you graduate you can also do optional practical training by filing I-765, this allows you to work for up to a year in the US full-time. There is another category for "hardship" cases while you're in college that lets you work full-time but it's very hard to pull off, you have to have some sort of certification by the college as I recall.
I seem to recall there's a university in Windsor that does an international JD course that is recognized by some State bar associations, that might be a solution if you can't afford it.
Steve.