Hey buddy, no problem at all. some nice people on these forums helped me out when I was in your spot, so I return the favour.
Ya, 3 months is the legal timeline for a tourist visa, but at the airport when I landed in Madrid, it was the easiest customs Ive ever been through, they didnt ask for anything like return flight, if we had enough money to support ourselves, anything like that. What I'm told though is if you are hear longer then 3 months, just go visit
france for a day and come back, and you get another 3 months. Just a little loopwhole.
As for jobs? Well its the offseason over here right now, (even though the streets are still packed all the time). I havn't found one yet, but Ive been doing more sightseeing these past 2 weeks rather then really putting my nose to it. I would say Spanish is almost a necessity though, but the good thing is, if you know Spanish, and also speak English as well as we do, then that will open up a ton of doors. My spanish is about 20% i'd say, so living here will obviously improve it, then studying the language more when I get back to Canada will ultimately give me the best chance to find a decent job.
As for housing. you will find places all over, just like any other big city. Its ALL apartments. The prices are virtually the same in the city for everything as they would be in Toronto for example, BUT in Euros. which is like ~1.6:1 with CAD. So, a big mac meal costs 6.50 Euros, but will cost you $10. So take this example and apply it to EVERYTHING. Its costly. But again, this is in Barcelona. (Mardrid was the same). For an English speaking person, you will find it almost crucial to live in one of these more international cities though, for life lines.
Then again, you might get out here and change your mind too. maybe out in the plains is your thing and you just needed to travel half way around the world to find that out lol. I say just buy a ticket and go.
Tyler