Posted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 6:38 am-
Hey there Meggers,
I can understand where you're coming from. I was in th UK for one year (went all by myself) and started off in a fancy hotel outside of Cardiff where the employer put all international staff in "staff accomodation". Total party.
Then I got tired of that and wanted to try out Scotland, so I moved to Edinburgh. I was all on my own there, knew no one in that city and found it much more difficult to meet people when you're not living/working/breathing with them.
There were two things I did:
1) Take a tour group to a destination you've always wanted to go to. I took a
Haggis Tour to the Isle of Skye for three nights and I would never have imagined it, but that's where I made a lot of my international friends. A couple of them where living in Edinburgh so I now had a few people to go out with, also some in London so I took a trip a few weeks later down to London to party there, etc. A
Contiki tour may be good for you too, depending on your age as it's strictly for young people (I think under 35?)
2) I got a part time job in a pub. I definitely made some friends with the young people working/drinking there and if nothing else, it kept me busy during the evenings which was when I got lonely.
BUT with that being said, you have to do what you can for yourself. You and your fianee should be taking as many trips as you can, every couple of weekends (
RyanAir flights are
ridiculously cheap, which I'm sure you've already discovere\ed) and Ireland is a beautiful place so you could certainly do a wonderful whirlwind tour there.
I find nobody can really anticipate how a place differs from Canada until you're actually there. The lifestyle is different, the people are different, EVERYTHING is different. I would try to
embrace that if I were you as you may find when you eventually come back to Canada that there are some things here that certainly don't
work as well as they did overseas. We are TOTALLY overworked, we live in terrible weather conditions, expensive cities, stressed out people in those cities, rude people and so on....so take advantage of the time you have to just chill - and
TRAVEL!
I hope this helps!
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Jillian