Posted: Mon Jun 18, 2007 8:10 pm-
I've been in the US for 4.5 years and I am fairly happy here. We have a great house in a great neighborhood, I have a great job that's 5 minutes away, my wife has a great job, my kid is in a great school, we have made some great friends. Life is, well, great.
My wife misses her friends and family, but mine all moved away anyhow before we did. Our house and neighborhood in Edmonton were just okay, here is much better. People here are friendlier, in fact -- there really is a Southern Hospitality.
I miss the snow but I don't miss -40C, not even a little bit. The heat and humidity here in VA is miserable and stifling in the summer and we hate it, but the spring and fall are nice, and winter is the 3rd week in January.
I was making an extraordinary salary in Canada but it was too good to last (got laid off). My wife was being paid well as a nurse. Now I make a very good but not exceptional salary, and my wife is underpaid, but still our standard of living is about the same. We were making double mortgage payments in Edmonton, which we can't afford to do now, unfortunately. However, our house here is worth twice as much.
Most things are a little cheaper here. Taxes are much lower in the US and you can write off your mortgage interest. Health care is more expensive, but if you have a job with good benefits then health care is not too expensive and it's actually much better than in Canada. If you don't have a job with good health benefits, well. don't get sick or you could lose your house.
We pay off our credit cards every month and don't live beyond our means. Most Americans do and are perpetually in debt. I think staying out of debt is a Canadian attitude.
Speaking of which, some attitudes here constantly make me shake my head. There are actually people who think George W. Bush is *not* a moron. I even know people who voted for him. Twice. These are otherwise intelligent and sensitive people. After the initial shock I have begun to understand why -- it's because they are Republicans and they have no choice but to vote Republican. To vote Democrat is a vote for communism. Elections here are perpetual and entertaining. It's mainly attack ads, particularly from Republicans who always call their Democrat opponents "liberal" because there is simply nothing worse for another human being to be.
Christianity is strong here. Americans assume everyone in the world wants to be American, and Southerners all know that God is American. The "with us or against us" mentality even extends to Canadians -- sales of Canada Dry ginger ale fell sharply when Canada didn't join the US in Iraq. Never mind that Canada joined them in the first Iraq war, and in Afghanistan, or that Canada Dry hasn't been Canadian for 50 years.
We haven't experienced discrimination ourselves, since face-to-face and overall Americans are wonderful people. They really like Canada. Unfortunately most know little about it and don't care to learn.
When an American says he's from Chicago, he expects everyone to know where that is. When we say we are from Edmonton, we get a blank stare. When we say we are from Canada, we get a smile and that's all they need to know.
Last year my wife spent 20 minutes convincing two teenage girls working at Fedex-Kinko's that Canada is not part of the US. No joke.
So overall, we will probably move back to Canada someday, but we are in no rush.
In the meantime, we are spreading Canadian tolerance and educating our friends here about their mysterious frozen neighbor to the north.