Sun May 24, 2009 2:55 pm
I am a US LPR married to a Canadian citizen. As a LPR, I have 2 options:
1. Wait 5 years to become US citizen and then sponsor to bring my wife over which will take an additional 1 year. In total, 6 years away from wife and new-born baby.
2. Apply to sponsor her while being a LPR myself and that will also take 5 years for her priority date to come up. Once that priority date comes up, it will take an additional 1 year (at least) for her visa to be issued. In total, 6 years away from wife and new-born baby.
I don't know about you but I am a human being with feelings for my wife and new-born baby. I would like to 'stay' with them in the same house instead of maintaining a long-distance relationship.
My hands are tied. I am a Ph.D student in US and I can't leave US until I finish my degree (at least 5 years, again).
US citizens can bring their wife and kids over in a matter of 9 to 12 months. Even international students studying in US can bring their wives over. But somehow US LPRs are not considered 'human' with emotions.
That's the gist of my story. So, before I am accused of 'trying to get away' with lies, one should consider the background.
My wife is a housewife and NEVER intends to work. I am going to be homeschooling my son. I do not ever intend to depend on any sort of government assistance for myself, my wife or my baby.
All I want to do is bring my Canadian wife to stay with me until I can legally sponsor her.
We will always be coming to and going out of USA by land. My passport nor hers have ever been scanned when we crossed the border. I don't see how they will find out.
I only want to see whether there is still a way for them to find out.
If this post is considered 'asking for help to perform something illegal', then feel free to delete it.
Only people who just got married and has a new-born knows what I am going through. Others will find it difficult to empathize and I understand that.