How to get married?

Hi Everybody,

I'm Iraqi and my girlfriend is Canadian, i currently live in Jordan and she live in Canada, we love each other so much and we want to get married and live in Canada.

I want to know whats the easiest way to do that?

Do she need to come to Jordan and marry me? and then bring me to Canada? if yes, what are the details? and how much time it would take?

Or, Do i need to get a Temporary Resident Visa to canada, and marry her there? which way is better?

I heard that getting a Temporary Resident Visa to canada (for iraqis) is so hard and the visa may be rejected,

I have contacted the embassy of Canada here, and they told me that i can apply for that visa, but there is chance of declining the visa....

What i need to proof them to make them approve my visa?

Also i am Muslim and she is Christian, Is this Ok?

If i been in Canada (by getting a Temporary Resident Visa), Can i marry her? and what steps i should take to marry her legally and get marriage license?

After i married her, Can i get residence in Canada and live with her? Or what will be happened?

Do we need to visit the church? if yes, why? do we need church license? and how if i am Muslim?

I will be very happy if somebody can explain and answer me all of my above questions (I am very confused)

Thanks in Advance.
Hussam