Posted: Mon Jun 30, 2003 5:48 am-
Hi all, and (for those who haven't been here long) - welcome to London!
I'm originally from Vancouver Island, and have been living in London for eight years. I came over on an
ancestry visa with dreams of adventure, and ended up with a career, a flat, a cat, and an English fiance.
I did find this city lonely when I first arrived here. However, I've since discovered that all English friendships seem to start in the pub...if you can head down for drinks with your co-workers on a Friday night, you will get a social circle reasonably quickly. Granted, I made this discovery a year into my stay when I was 23 (I'm 30 now), and I have noticed that people tend to go out on the lash a little less once they get a mortgage and/or kids.
Apart from that, making friends with fellow expats (especially the millions of antipodeans that seem to be on every corner) is easier than forming friendships with the British, as we're all in the same boat. I have to admit that most of my English friends are people I met through my boyfriend, which isn't an option for everyone!
Have you had a look at Network Canada? They run social get-togethers, including a Canada Day party at Canada House tomorrow.