Where do you plan on living after you're married? You'll still have to endure immigration process somewhere, whether US, or UK.
And as Steve mentioned if you're already banned, being married now isn't going to get you in. You'll have to go back to
UK to wait out the petition and application and waiver process.
For info on marriage based immigration to the US see
http://www.visajourney.com ALL the info you need is already there. Including info about waivers.