Ok so using your advice I looked on the website suggested for the US consulate. After some careful reading they say (as do you) that I do infact have to attend a US Consulate for my TD visa and that at the same time my Wife has to attend with her or FOR her TN visa. If applying for her TN visa at the same time then the children would also attend to receive there dependant visa's. It will slow us down a little having to go the Consulate however they are generating appointments within the 6 wk time frame so that's not to bad.
Now we do understand that I would be a 'dependant' and my wife the worker. As I would still be generating income at home I could still supplement however taxes in the US could be a pain to figure out (my next big read topic I'd think!). We are aware that if she lost her job then we'd be sent home as this a non-permanent visa, however she is on a 3 year contract with a large hospital in a field that she is over qualified for and that no US born employees with the same credentials applied for. So with that being said.... life is a gamble.... I figure that within 3 years we will know if the US is for us or not. If it is then we can return to Canada to start the immigration process (understanding it might take a few years to get there as it did me to Canada in the first place!) if it is not possible to start it whilst employed in the US. If it is not for our family then we will search out new avenues in the future! You could call this a 'trial run' if you will, I believe that having an option to try before you buy is fantastic when talking about relocation so why not take the opportunity right.





