I know this must be getting awfully tiresome to hear.
But I'm yet another Canadian with an American boyfriend. He's in Milwaukee and I also want to move there. Now, I stood outside and talked to the woman working the window of the American embassy in Toronto, but it seems she hadn't given me all the information I needed.
I'm, again, lost in a sea of information and am still somewhat lost on how to go about getting started. I've got information on the marriage route covered, I've been talking to someone who came over here from
Australia and she went the K2 visa route and is a chockful of information that way.
However, I don't think marriage is going to be my route, at least not yet. I'm driving in with him next month and I'm going to be looking for work there while I stay with him. I've also been looking really, really hard online. I know the best option is
TN status, but I'm not quite sure that will apply to me. I did go to a post-secondary institute in Toronto (so I have my diploma) for advertising and streamed creative (writing in particular) but I'm not very experienced in the field and am terribly, terribly worried that I won't be able to find a job in my field and thus not be able to apply for TN status. I've got friends, and my boyfriend, trying to help find me work, but even then! What do I apply for if I get the job? At that point I've got proof of employment, but then which of the many visas do I file? I-765 doesn't seem to apply, and I-129 doesn't seem to apply either since I already need to be working a job.
Now I know I can't just drive in with what is clearly A LOT of clothing and shoes and DVDs without someone at the border getting suspicious, so what do I tell them? Because I know if I don't find a job, I'm coming right back to Canada, I'm not going to abuse anything and, just, stay. I've been working a part time job here but I barely get any hours and things won't change too much when I quit. So that's not too much of an issue. I guess in the larger picture, I'm visiting my boyfriend for longer than I normally do. However....I don't want to lie to them about me looking for a job. What do I say when I'm at the border??
I am completely broken with all of this stuff, honestly...the more I think about it, the more I just want to break down and cry!