Posted: Sun Jan 27, 2008 9:51 pm-
Hi I have a question. My fiance and I have been dating and corresponding for about a year. We are uncertain what the proper and most expedited way would be for me to move there with him. I am a professional and so is he. He is also retired military.
We want to marry but are uncertain if it would be better to marry once I am there (and what forms wait times etc to expect)OR to marry here and then apply to come down there (and what forms, wait times etc).
Once married we do not want to be separated because we have waited so long and love each other very much. What is a marriage anyway if he is there and I am here. This is all so confusing. We hope to be married this December (Xmas wedding)Can anyone PLEASE assist me to know the best course to take. We are both in our 50s. HELP