elissaxori wrote:HELP!!! I am a canadian citizen, married to an american citizen and we have a son together, i have no american documents what so ever and if i leave him will i get my child or will he get him because his is an american citizen? i hope someone can help me
You probably need to talk to a lawyer--or if you cannot afford a lawyer surely there are womens' centers that could help.
On the one hand it is true that mothers generally get custody but I also would not advise a parent of either gender to try to take a child across an international border unilaterally without the written approval of either the other parent or the legal system of the country they are leaving. The consequences for child kidnapping are pretty serious.
You need an advocate who can help you--the advocate will need to know the circumstances both behind your prospective leaving your husband and the fact that you have no US ID despite living in the USA with your husband/son.